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Wednesday, March 18, 2015

wonderful story WHAT HAVE YOU LEARNT ON YOUR PATH

*What have you learnt on your path?*  -
 
 A King had an only son, a young Prince, brave, skillful  and intelligent. To
 perfect his knowledge of  Life, he sent him to  an Old Wise Man.
 
 "Bring Light to my Path of Life", the Prince  asked.
 
 "My words will faint away like the prints of your steps in the sand", the  Wise Man answered." However, I want  to give you some  indications. On your  Path, you will find 3 doors. Read the rules written on each  of them. An  irresistible need will urge you to follow them. Dont  try and get away from  them, because you would be condemned to live again, ceaselessly, what you  have avoided. I may tell you no more. You have to feel all  this deep in your heart and in your flesh. Go, now. Follow  this path, right in front of you."
 
 The Old Wise Man disappeared and the Prince entered  the  Path of Life.
 
 He was soon in front of a big door, on  which one could  read:
 
                                         "CHANGE THE WORLD".

 "It was my intention indeed", the Prince thought,  "because if some things
 please me in this world, others greatly displease me."  

 And he began his first fight. His ideal, his ardour and his  power urged him
 to confront himself to the world, to undertake, to conquer,  to model reality
 according to his desires.
 
 He found there the pleasure and the dizziness of the  conqueror, but no peace
 in his heart. He managed to change some things but many  others resisted to
 him. Many years passed.

 One day, he met the Old Wise Man who asked him:
 
                                 "*What have you learnt on your path?*"
 
 "I have learnt," the Prince answered, " how  to discern what is within my
 power and what is without; what depends on me and what does  not depend on
 me".
 
 "Thats good!", the Old Man said. "Use  your strength to act on what is
 within your power. Forget whats beyond your  power." And he disappeared.
 
 A bit later, the Prince was in front of a second door.    He could read on it :
 
                                           "CHANGE OTHERS".
 
 "It was my intention indeed", he thought.  "Others are a source of
 pleasure, enjoyment and satisfaction, but also, of pain,  bitterness and
 frustration. "
 
 And he rebelled against everything that could disturb him  or displease him
 in his fellow men. He tried to bend their characters and to extirpate their
 defects. It was  his second fight.
 
 Many years passed.
 
 One day, as he was meditating on the utility of the  attempts to change  others, he met the Old Wise Man who asked him:
 
                           "*What have you learnt on your path?"*
 
 "I have learnt", the Prince answered, "that others are not the cause or  the source of my joys and my punishments, my satisfactions  and  my setbacks. They are  only opportunities for all of them to be  revealed in myself. It is in myself  that all these things have their roots."
 
 "You are right," the Wise Man said.  "According to what they wake up in you,
the others reveal you to yourself. Be grateful  to those  who make your  enjoyment and pleasure vibrate. But be also grateful to  those who create in
you suffering or frustration, because, through them, life  teaches you  what  is left in you to learn and the path that you  still  have to walk."
 
 And the Old Man disappeared.
 
 A bit further on, and  the Prince arrived in front of a door, on  which these words
 were written:
 
                                         "CHANGE YOURSELF".
 
  "If I am myself the cause of my problems, it is  indeed whats left in me to  work on", he said to himself.
 
 And he began his 3rd fight. He tried to bend his character, to fight  his imperfections, to abolish his defects, to change  everything that did  not please him in himself, everything that did not  correspond to his ideal.
 
 After many years of this fight, in which he met some  success, but also, some
 failures and some resistances, the Prince met the Wise Man  who asked him:
 
                          "*What have you learnt on your path?"*
 
 "I have learnt", the Prince answered, "that  there are things that we can
 improve, others that resist us and that we cant  manage to break."
 
 "Thats good!" the Wise Man said.
 
 "Yes", the Prince went on, "but I am  beginning to be tired of fighting  against everything, against everybody, against myself.  Wont there be an end to it one day? When shall I find a rest? I want to stop  fighting, to give up, to abandon everything, I want to let go !"

 "It is precisely your next lesson", the Old Wise  Man said. "But before going
 any further, turn round and behold the path  covered." 

                                         And he disappeared.
 
 On looking back, the Prince saw in the distance the 3rd  door, and noticed
 that it was carrying a text on its back, saying :
 
                                         "ACCEPT YOURSELF"
 
 The Prince was surprised not to have seen this writing when  he went through
 the door, the other way.
 
 "When one fights, one becomes blind", he said to  himself. He also saw, lying
 on the ground, scattered around him,  everything he had  thrown away and
 fought against in him: his defects, his shadows, his fears, his limits, all
 his old worries.

 He now learnt  how to recognize them,  to accept them,  to love them. He learnt how to love himself  without  comparing himself  to  others any more, without judging himself, without  reprimanding  himself.

 He met the Old Wise Man who asked him:
 
                              "*What have you learnt on your path?"*
 
 "I have learnt", the Prince answered," that  hating or refusing a part of  myself, is to condemn myself never to be in agreement  with myself. I  have learnt how to accept myself, totally,  unconditionally. "

  "Thats good!", the Old Man said, it is the first rule in Wisdom. Now you can go back through the 3rd door."
 
 He had no sooner reached the other side, that the Prince perceived far away
 the back side of the second door, on which  he could read:
 
                                               "ACCEPT OTHERS"

 All around him, he could recognize the persons he had been with all his life through; those he had loved as well as those he had hated. Those he had supported and those he had fought. But the biggest surprise of all for him was that now, he was absolutely unable to see their imperfections, their  defects; those that formerly  had embarrassed him so much, and against which he had fought.
 
 He met the Old Wise Man again who asked him again
 
                               "*What have you learnt on your path?*"  
 
 "I have learnt", the Prince answered, "that by being in agreement with myself, I had nothing more to blame in others, nothing  more  to  be afraid of  in them. I have learnt how to accept and to  love  others,  totally,   unconditionally. " 

 "Thats good!", the Old Wise Man said.  "It is the second rule in Wisdom. You
 can go back through the second door."
 
 On reaching the other side of the second door, the Prince perceived in the
 distance the back side of the first door,    on which he could read:
 
                                        "ACCEPT THE WORLD"
 
 "Strangely enough", he said to himself,  "that I did not see these words the first time". He looked all around him and  recognized te world which  he had tried to conquer, to transform, to change. He was  struck by the  brightness and the beauty of  every thing. By their  perfection. Nevertheless, it was the same world as before.  Was it the world  which had changed or the glance he had on it?
 
He met the Old Wise Man who asked him:
 
                           "*What have you learnt on your path?"*
 
 "I have learnt", the Prince said, that the world  is a mirror for my soul.  That my soul cant  see itself;  it  can only see itself in the world. When my soul  is cheerful, the world seems cheerful to it. When it is overcome, the world
seems sad to it. The world itself is neither sad nor  cheerful. It is JUST THERE ; it just exists;  It was  not the world that  disturbed me, but  the idea that I had of it. I have learnt to accept it  without judging it; to  accept it totally,  unconditionally. "
 
 "It is 3rd rule of Wisdom", the Old Man said.

 "You are here now in agreement  with yourself, with  others and with the World."
 
 A profound feeling of peace, serenity and plenitude  ( Fullness. Plenty ), filled the Prince. Silence  was in him.
 
 "Now, you are ready to go past the last  Threshold", the Old Wise Man said,
 "the one that goes from the silence of   Plenitude to  the Plenitude of
 Silence".
 
                               And the Old Man disappeared.
  
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Human Interest story


FRIENDSHIP—CARLYLE AND J .S. MILL
                                                                                                                                                              
                                          Thomas Carlyle, the eldest son of James Carlyle was born in Scotland on 4th December, 1795.Carlyle was brought up as a strict Calvinist and was educated at the village school. As a boy he learned reading from his mother, arithmetic from his father; he attended a private school in Ecclefechan and then, at the age of six, the nearby Hoddam parish school. He immediately became the pride of the schoolmaster, the young person on whom approving adults and jealous schoolmates place the burden of differentness. He received training in French and Latin but over the next few years taught himself Spanish, Italian, and German. Carlyle also took a keen interest in literature and read the work of Daniel Defoe, Henry Fielding, Henry Fielding, Tobias Smollet , Laurence Sterne and William Congreve.
                                        Carlyles father expected him to attend divinity school after completing his university studies. However, he rejected this idea and in 1814 became a mathematics teacher at Annan Academy at £70 per annum. In 1816 he obtained a teaching position where he taught Latin, French, arithmetic, bookkeeping, geometry, navigation and geography. He held his wife in great esteem. He later wrote: "She could do anything well to which she chose to give herself.... She had a keen clear incisive faculty of seeing through things, and hating all that was make-believe or pretentious. She had good sense that amounted to genius. She loved to learn and she cultivated all her faculties to the utmost of her power. She was always witty … in a word she was fascinating and everybody fell in love with her."
                                   Thomas Carlyles reputation as an expert on literature and philosophy resulted in him receiving commissions. He started work on his first book, Sartor Resartus. Thomas and Jane Carlyle moved to London. He developed a close friendship with John Stuart Mill and he had several articles published in his Westminster Review .It was Mill who suggested that Carlyle should write a book about the French Revolution. He agreed and started the book in September 1834. After completing the first volume he sent it to Mill for his comments. On the night of 6th March 1835, Mill arrived at Carlyles house with the news that the manuscript had been burnt by mistake at the home of Harriet Taylor. The following day he decided to rewrite volume one again. The three volume book was not finished until 12th January, 1837. 
                                    Carlyle met Charles Dickens for the first time in 1840. Carlyle described Dickens  as "a fine little fellow... a face of most extreme mobility, which he shuttles about - eyebrows, eyes, mouth and all - in a very singular manner while speaking... a quiet, shrewd-looking, little fellow, who seems to guess pretty well what he is and what others are." The two men became close friends. Dickens told one of his sons that Carlyle was the man "who had influenced him most" and his sister-in-law, that "there was no one for whom he had a higher reverence and admiration".
 
Charles Dickens  dedicated his book, Hard Times  to Carlyle. He also helped Dickens with his book, A Tale of Two Cities.
"He (Dickens) had always admired Carlyles History of the French Revolution, and asked him to recommend suitable books from which he could research the period; in reply Carlyle sent him a cartload of volumes from the London Library. Apparently Dickens read, or at least looked through, them all; it was his aim during the period of composition only to read books of the period itself."
Thomas Carlyle died at his home in 1881.
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